A lil Collecty

The older I get, the more collecty I get.

As a younger person, I didn’t collect anything and didn’t really see the point. It didn’t seem like a practical thing to do.

Now that I’ve settled into a family home, I like having more stuff around me and genuinely enjoy staring at my shelves and walls full of collected things.

I’m sure there’s science behind the benefits of just….staring in this overstimulating world.

Lately, I’ve been collecting home design books.

Owning this type of collection serves two purposes — it’s easy and fun to style shelves and surfaces with books, and I glean lots of inspo from the pages.

I love cracking one open on a Saturday morning with a cup of coffee after a busy week.

I’ve also started collecting pins.

I thrifted this old Dooney & Bourke canvas purse from Goodwill years ago, and have given it new life by sticking vintage pins on it that I’ve found while thrifting.

I love the shape and size of this purse, but it has some imperfections (stains on the leather). Adding the pins has gussied this old girl up!

I recently purchased a Lands End canvas tote for beach and travel, so now I have even more real estate for pin collecting.

These vibes but make ’em thrifted.

Accessorizing bags, hats, and sweaters with pins is adorable! Why wasn’t I doing this before?!

Old collecty me is all about it.

Last week’s thrifted ‘fits:

Top from The Nearly New Shop West Palm Beach
Sandals from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Button Up and Linen Pants from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Mom’s entire outfit is Goodwill West Palm Beach – Top, Skirt, Sandals, and Bag
Top and Bag from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Cardigan from my Swap Brunch Party, Pants passed down from a friend, Tote from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Cole Haan Pumps from Goodwill West Palm Beach

A Beary Unexpected V-Day Moment

Valentine’s Day is for lovers plus everyone else in my house.

Vince and I celebrated the holiday with a little staycation in Ft. Lauderdale but came home on Saturday night to take our baby girl out for a date (the boys were away celebrating their mom’s birthday).

But first – mama needs a massage.

We took her to the mall to pick out a new Build-A-Bear stuffie (her first Build-A-Bear is a red monkey — when you squeeze its hand, Vince’s voice says, “Happy first Valentine’s Day Elaine, I love you!”).

Baby E chose a beautiful, sparkly fairy bear and dressed her in a Rapunzel dress and tiara.

While filling out the bear’s birth certificate, we asked Elaine what to name it and she quickly yelled, “SALIVA!”

…….

“What was that, sweetie?”

Elaine smiled up at us and cupped her hand to her lips.

“SAAAALIVAAAA,” she stage whispered.

Saliva it is and shall ever be.


We all know how hard updating government documents can be — if this bear knows what’s best, she should accept her fate and introduce herself as “Sally” to those who don’t know her.

Anyway, as I was saying… Valentine’s Day is for everyone in my house, including the grandmas.

So I pulled together a little V-Day lunch for the family and naturally filled the table with thrifted finds, which I’m happy to tell you all about:

The weather was perfect, so we sat on our back patio for a lunch made of Buccan sandwiches, chips, and salads — all mouthwatering and highly recommended.

Earlier in the week, Elaine and I decorated construction paper hearts, which we stuck into a fun floral photo holder thingy I thrifted from Goodwill, and that served as our centerpiece.

Goodwill items included:
-The adorable heart taper candles
-Disposable napkins
-White dinner plates
-Floral placemats
-Amber goblets

I went to a luncheon last week and they were giving the centerpieces away at the end, so I salvaged and deconstructed one for the table.

The painted leaves are so cool, right? I stuck the roses and greenery in a crystal vase that was thrifted and gifted from my mother-in-law. She also gifted the pink serving platter I used for the sandwiches and the white tablecloth.

The heart straws and gift bags are from the dollar store! I love shopping there for holiday themed items.

The V-Day Crew!
yum yum yum

It was a busy, sweet weekend!

Last week’s thrifted ‘fits:

Anthropologie bag from Goodwill West Palm Beach, Earrings from Stone Button Studio
Top and MANGO tote bag from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Sunnies from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Date night purse from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Kaftan/Swim Cover from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Baby’s sweet dress from Goodwill West Palm Beach


Things I left at Goodwill:

Picture a palm leaf sticking out of this — so coastal chic!
This shell lamp base had a different shade on top, but I found this other hand painted one and thought they looked cool together. I’m currently lamp rich, though, so had to leave this behind!

Goodwill’s Got My Back

I’ve mentioned before that my daughter’s room is my favorite space in my house.

The entire room is collected whimsy.

The shelves and walls are full of thrifted, gifted, or passed down items. A major moment is the gallery wall above her dresser.

The largest piece here is a painting we bought on our baby moon in Jamaica. The artist added Elaine’s name in the corner, which is such a sweet touch.

I also have a framed photo of Elaine’s name written in script across beach sand.

This photo was created by my favorite shopkeeper, Inge, of Stone Button Studio. She texted it to me when she was unable to attend our baby shower.

Recently, the frame fell off the wall and cracked.

Just a few weeks later, I found the perfect replacement frame at Goodwill.

Now, I think it looks even better!

Goodwill’s always got this girlie’s back. 😉

>> Check out this post for an in-depth look at baby girl’s room decor.

Last week’s thrifted ‘fits:

I was able to put my Goodwill sweater finds to good use over the weekend we spent in Chicago.

Red cardigan and boots from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Beaded belt and boots from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Closer look at the beaded belt detail; the dress ins’t thrifted, it’s Anthropologie!
Baby’s pants are thrifted from Goodwill West Palm Beach and her top is thrifted and gifted from a friend
H&M Sweater, GAP jeans, and boots from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Seeing snow for the first time! Baby’s coat is consigned from Kid to Kid in Palm Beach Gardens.
Sweater from Goodwill West Palm Beach

The One Item I Don’t Thrift

One clothing item I rarely thrift is denim.

I’ve found a pair or two of jeans in Goodwill over the years, but I don’t usually peruse the pants section, mostly because I don’t like trying things on in the store.

I thrifted these Madewell jeans last year…the only denim thrift purchase I’ve made in years!

At this point in my life, I can eyeball a piece of clothing and tell whether it will fit me well, so I can usually avoid a Goodwill dressing room.

Nobody cherishes going into a Goodwill dressing room.

People doo doo in there sometimes.

Pants are one of those items you have to try on, even if you know your body type and sizing super well, because fits vary dramatically depending on the brand and cut of the pant.

It has taken me years, but I’ve finally found the denim brand that works best for my body — Madewell.

My size is consistent in all their styles, so I can easily wait for a sale and order online — no try ons necessary.

I’ll be a high waist pant girlie til the day I die, and Madewell does it perfectly. Their high waist hits me just right, doesn’t cut off circulation to my cooch, and flattens my fupa quite nicely. Plus, all denim cuts I’ve experienced cradle my butt cheeks respectfully.

I haven’t found another jean as flattering! (but if you have a go-to brand, let me know – I’m always down to explore)

Here are my fave styles of late:

I just purchased these for $50 — The Curvy Perfect Vintage Wide-Leg Jean

I love that wide leg jeans are having a moment. These are incredibly comfy.


I’ve been wearing these non-stop this winter, and was influenced by a friend to purchase them — Flared Wide-Leg Crop Jeans


A super dark wash that feels classy/easy to dress up — The Perfect Vintage Wide-Leg Jean in Airy Denim

I’m good on denim at the moment, but if I were in the market for more, I’d be eyeing:

The Cleo Straight Jean

Love a white pant.


The Emmy Wide-Leg Jean

Into these pockets.

What’s your favorite denim brand?

Last week’s thrifted ‘fits:

>> Goodwill thrift haul reel on my Instagram profile!

Sweater from Goodwill West Palm Beach; also wearing my new $50 Madewell jeans!
Sweatshirt from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Dress from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Sweater from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Express shirt and vintage jacket from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Mom found a pair of chucks – a nostalgic purchase! When she got her first job at 14 she saved up to buy a pair.
Mom in a gorgeous dress found at Goodwill West Palm Beach

Things I left at Goodwill:

This dress looked so pretty, but I’m cutting myself off on dresses for now.
Amazing mirror!

Gallery Moments

I’m a big fan of the gallery wall, and have several in my home. I’ve always liked using them in a non-traditional way (traditional being matching frames hung in a perfectly symmetrical grouping).

A traditional gallery wall in our home featuring images from our favorite vacation.

I like thinking of my gallery moments as wall scrapbooks. I mix and match frame styles, include photos next to artwork, and hang objects like baskets and hats.

If someone writes me a cute note, or I leave a wedding with a polaroid keepsake, I’ll tuck these pieces into the edges of frames.

The gallery wall above my desk.

My gallery walls are constantly changing as I bring in new pieces from my thrift adventures, like puzzles that are never finished.

One of my favorite galleries is the one above my desk/office space in our primary bedroom.

It includes a floral painting found years ago at Stitches and Rust (the owner now operates a shop called  Trashé Vintage), and a painting given to me by my mother.

The artist’s granddaughter was my mother’s neighbor in Missouri, and gave this piece, along with another large collection, to my mom for free, as long as she promised to keep them safe.

The post office gave us a copy of Elaine’s passport photo, so I tucked it in the floral painting’s frame, along with a tiny image of my boys that was leftover from some prints I made to go into a locket for my mother-in-law.

Now that my mom lives seasonally with us in Florida, we’re keeping all the art on our walls.

I’ve hung a hat from Stone Button Studio in Northwood Village, a little stained glass and shell mirror purchased at the Northwood Holiday Home Tours market in 2024, a basket I’ve just added to the collection this weekend (purchased at The Rust Market in Lake Park), and my favorite piece of all — framed hand written notes from my mother.

My mom wrote these notes to me when I was two years old. I had done a couple of cute/sweet things, so she jotted them down as memories and added little love notes in too.

A polaroid from Vince and Elaine’s first daddy daughter dance, and a tiny envelope with “Vanessa and Vince” written on it and a cute little butterfly

To this day, I can’t read the notes without crying. Even before becoming a mother myself, they brought tears to my eyes.

I love those notes so much that when my parents asked what I wanted for my college graduation gift, I just asked to have them matted and framed.

My mom couldn’t believe it — frame her slanted writing and spelling errors?!

Hell yeah! That’s what I love about it. The busy, working mom of a toddler taking a few minutes to jot down a moment she wanted to hold onto. A piece of life with her family she wanted to keep from fading. A quick little love story for later.

I love having moments like that on my walls.

Finally put up this rattan mirror I thrifted from Goodwill a few weeks ago.

Last week’s thrifted ‘fits:

>> Goodwill thrift haul reel on my Instagram profile!

>> Consignment shopping reel on my Instagram profile!

Sweater thrifted and gifted from a friend
Button up and striped H&M pants from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Huarache sandals from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Anthropologie skirt and MANGO tote from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Sunshine State cap from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Handmade dress created from a thrifted, vintage tablecloth purchased from a designer who exclusively sells at The Rust Market in Lake Park
J. McLaughlin sandals from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Men’s striped button up from Goodwill Denver, CO

Trashé for Moi, please.

Palm Beach County’s thrift community is made up of the best, most generous and creative people.

As an avid thrift shopper, I’ve had the pleasure of getting to know several local shop owners, and I’ve come to discover that folks who curate and collect have the warmest hearts. It’s just a tried and true combo.

I’ve known the owner of Trashé Vintage, Heidi, for many years. Our sons were elementary school friends, and when Heidi and I first met, her store was called Stitches and Rust.

Image Source: The Palm Beach Post

Her eye for curation is impeccable, and her prices have always been within reach for the average shopper. The style of her shop has evolved over the years, which I think is a reflection of her own evolution as a person — a very cool thing.

Heidi hosted a community-wide rummage sale in the parking lot of her shop over the weekend and it was fun to see that, much like her artfully collected shop, she’s curated a community of people who love shopping secondhand, eating tacos, and singing karaoke in the middle of the day.

The Cozy Cottage table had items exclusively $5 and under
Mom snagged a free pair of sandals from the clothing swap section.
Baby chose her own outfit for the outing — head to toe black was an aggressive but respectable choice.

The rummage sale prices were insanely good. I spent $15 and came away with an awesome haul.

I also got to catch up with Denise, owner of The Cozy Cottage in Lake Worth Beach, who gave me a bag of clothes she’d collected that reminded her of me.

See what I mean about this awesome thrift community?!

Here’s my rummage sale haul:

Bag of goodies!
Goodies included these wreath earrings (so tempted to wear these all year round) and a little vintage vase pendant. I’m picturing this on a long chain! Love unique finds like this.
I also grabbed two pins – I’ve been adding pins to some of my purses, and have been accessorizing sweaters with them this winter.
I snagged this awesome pouf for $5!

We ended the afternoon with a trip to Goodwill. Naturally, I left with a few bags.

Thrift haul coming soon to my insta profile!

Things I left at Goodwill:

I know someone was JAZZED to snag this side table. So good!!
$10!!!
Awesome coffee table
‘Twas a day for coffee tables.

Last week’s thrifted ‘fits:

>> Dominica souvenir hauls on my instagram profile! <<

J.Crew sweater from Goodwill West Palm Beach
No tag sweater from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Nike windbreaker from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Sweater from Goodwill West Palm Beach, J.Jill linen button up from Goodwill Denver, Pin from Trashe Vintage’s Rummage Sale
Linnette bag from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Close up of this lil cutie pin
Treasure and Bond Boots from Goodwill West Palm Beach

Surprisingly Artsy Crafty

Happy New Year! I’m grateful to have this creative outlet and friends who support it by reading and engaging with my ramblings.

So let’s waste no time and get right into my ramblings this week!

I ordered a hot glue gun from Amazon, and I fear it has made me too powerful.

She’s pink and she’s perfect.

I’ve never been an arts and crafts type of gal, though I admire artsy and crafty folks so very much.

But…has this hot glue gun made me artsy and crafty? Perhaps you can be the judge.

I initially ordered the hot glue gun for my mom, actually. She needs it for a project, but once I had it in my possession, I quickly realized that the possibilities are vast.

On literal Christmas day, I took this hot glue gun into my bathroom to renovate our struggling towel hooks, because the thought had been scratching the back of my mind ever since the Amazon package arrived and I could wait no longer.

Here’s how the towel hooks looked before:

Woof. Chipped and broken.

As you’ve learned by now, I’m really into shells and have a lot of them laying around my house, so I thought: why not hot glue some shells onto these broken towel hooks?!?

So, that’s what I did:

This experience was so intoxicating, that I took my hot glue gun and shells to a picture frame I thrifted during my Denver Goodwill trip in October:

I’m obsessed. What will I glue next?!

Last week’s thrifted ‘fits:

>> Highlight reel of the thrifted Christmas gifts I gave to family on my Instagram profile! <<

Zara top from Goodwill West Palm Beach
House of Harlow dress from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Gorgeous necklace made of thrifted fabric, charms, and shells by Sarah Bray Bermuda
Dooney & Bourke bag from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Baby girl’s Christmas eve dress from Goodwill West Palm Beach
My Christmas day sweater and linen slip dress from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Vintage, secondhand Lilly Pulitzer caftan purchased at a nonprofit event
Baby girl’s Lilly Pulitzer romper from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Woven bag thrifted and gifted from a friend!
Sweater layered over a white sun dress – both from Goodwill West Palm Beach; Necklace made of thrifted materials by Sarah Bray Bermuda; Ring from A Timeless Treasure in Northwood Village
Sam Edelman sandals from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Sunglasses from Goodwill West Palm Beach; Top from Nearly New Shop West Palm Beach
Can you believe my mom found this bag brand new at Goodwill?! She gifted it to me for Christmas.

I hope the new year brings you many thrifting adventures, friends!

A Thrifted Christmas Table

This year, our boys were out of town for Christmas, so Vince and I hosted a small Christmas dinner with just baby girl and our moms.

I’ve been collecting items for my Christmas tablescape for several months and am sharing here all the details of my completely thrifted, gifted and secondhand Christmas table:


-White Dinner Plates – Goodwill West Palm Beach
-Green Cloth Napkins – The Nearly New Shop West Palm Beach
-Napkin Rings – Thrifted and gifted from a friend
-Silverware – Wedding Gifts
-Milk Glass Goblets – Passed down from my mom
-Candle with Glass Christmas Tree Charm – Goodwill West Palm Beach

-Taper Candles – Thrifted from Goodwill West Palm Beach or gifted
-Crystal Candle Holders – Wedding Gifts
-Table Runner – Goodwill West Palm Beach

The table runner originally had tassels on either end, but they fell off after I ran it through the washing machine, so I tied ornaments on either end to replace them! The vintage wreath ornaments were sourced from The Nearly New Shop West Palm Beach.

-Brass Candle Holders – Passed down from my mom
-Small White & Green China Candleholders – Goodwill West Palm Beach
-Glass Christmas Tree Votive Holder – Passed down from my mom
-Christmas Holly Candle Holder – Goodwill West Palm Beach
-Cake Stand – Garage sale find
-Wooden Nativity People – The Cozy Cottage Lake Worth Beach

Now that all my Christmas gifts have gone out, I’ll also be sharing details on most of the items I thrifted for friends and family this year — stay tuned!

I hope you had a cozy Christmas full of warmth and love, friends.

Last week’s thrifted ‘fits and treasures:

>> Mom and I visited the Rust Market in Lake Park for last minute Christmas shopping – reel on my Instagram profile! <<

Sweater and MANGO tote from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Ring from A Timeless Treasure West Palm Beach
Sweater from Goodwill West Palm Beach; Madewell Jeans from Goodwill Boutique in Boca Raton
Hightop chucks from Goodwill West Palm Beach
J. Peterman jumpsuit and leather belt from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Anthropologie skirt from Goodwill West Palm Beach; Amazing necklace made of vintage fabric, charms, and shells sourced from thrift and estate sale trips made by Sarah Bray Bermuda
A closer look at my stunning Sarah Bray Bermuda necklace!
Baby girl’s dress from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Mom bought me a pair of tassels from the Rust Market in Lake Park – they are on our end tables in our bedroom for now.
This stunning handmade, one-of-a-kind dress made from a hand stitched vintage tablecloth is from a Rust Market vendor named Marcia. She doesn’t sell online/has no digital presence and more people need to know about her!! This dress is one example of many gorgeous designs. I highlighted her in my recent instagram reel – check it out!
Vince and I brought a bottle of wine to dinner with friends and I popped on this vintage ornament sourced from a collection I found at Goodwill West Palm Beach.
Elaine’s set from Goodwill West Palm Beach

Pouf! A Bedroom Solution

I’ve always loved the idea of a bench at the foot of our bed, and keep my eyes peeled for one at all times while perusing the shops.

They are hard to find! I guess people tend to hang on to their benches.

Granted, I haven’t been overly serious about finding one and am only willing to pay Goodwill prices, so that narrows down my possibility of snagging the perfect bench, I guess.

Would scream if I found something like this in the shops.
Or this.

During my latest Goodwill trip, my eyes fell upon two seagrass poufs. I almost passed them up, because I truly have enough furniture in my living room and loft, and couldn’t immediately think of a place for them.

I stood thinking over it for a while before moving on, though, because I knew those things were expensive and I could snag them for $20 each — a steal.

Then, I realized — I could put these at the foot of my bed in lieu of a bench! I hadn’t really seen this before, but a quick Google search confirmed that it’s a thing:

I’m pretty sure these are the poufs. I was right about the original price!

The floral pillows are from Goodwill too!

The thrifterverse provides yet again. I’m so pleased with this purchase.

Do you think the poufs work here? Or would they be better suited in a different setting?

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With the weather cooling down in FL, I drove past several garage sales while out running errands over the weekend. Here’s what I found:

A basket as big as my baby and the sunglasses she’s wearing (she picked them out) — the basket was only $10!
My first pair of crocs 🤪

Things I left at Goodwill:

This rattan napkin holder. Would be good for parties, but I already have several little basket caddies that I use for napkins and party flatware, so I left this for a fellow thrifter to find.
Look at the prices on these Tory Burch espadrilles! I didn’t leave these by choice – they were both too small for me. 🥲
These lime green sunglasses that Elaine looked FAB in.

I also attended a holiday home tour event in an historic district of West Palm Beach over the weekend, which was a blast and also inspiring.

I loved seeing how people have cared for and upgraded their old homes — my community has such great taste!

Me, my mom, and our friend Jill at the holiday home tours event.

My favorite shop keeper, Inge, from the absolute best vintage and handmade shop, Stone Button Studio, was part of the event’s holiday market, so I grabbed a few of her treasures — I can never resist!

I love collecting Inge’s hand painted stones and tucking them on shelves and desks, the same way I place my shells.
I have several of her hanging charms in windows and on plants throughout my house.
This table runner is so gorgeous, I can’t wait to style a tablescape with it.

I hope you’re having as much fun as I am this holiday season, friends.

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Last week’s thrifted ‘fits round- up:

>> Goodwill Thrift Trip Video on my Instagram Profile! <<

Holiday party green dress from Goodwill West Palm Beach, Vintage glass candy earrings from the West Palm Beach Antiques Festival
Top from City Girl Consignment
Baby girl’s bumblebee dress from Goodwill West Palm Beach

White Elephant Exchange

Every year, my office gathers for a holiday lunch and white elephant gift exchange.

Since my thrifting habit has been insatiable, and I constantly seek excuses to be in the shops, I decided to create my first thrifted basket of the season for the holiday lunch.

We have several animal and nature lovers where I work, so I’m hoping someone enjoys the items I found — brand new and unopened (!!!) — at Goodwill.

I’m always snagging baskets when I find them, so it was easy to pull one from my growing collection in which to place all the white elephant items.

I think, ideally for a thrifted basket, I would arrange the items cutely and tie a ribbon on the basket handle — kind of like a typical fruit or gift basket.

But, the whole point of a white elephant exchange is that nobody can see what the gift is before selecting it from the pile.

So, I decided to tie up all the items in a thrifted scarf.

I don’t love the look, but it got the job done.

I found a fun dog puzzle and wild flower field guide — both great gifts for the animal and outdoor lovers.

Our white elephant gift spending limit is $25. This puzzle would’ve almost reached the limit, had I purchased it elsewhere.

I don’t imagine anyone is going to pull this field guide from their back pocket whilst traipsing Mounts Botanical Gardens, but I think it’s a fun thing to have on a table or bookshelf.

I added this beautiful glass ornament I found at the Nearly New Shop in West Palm Beach.

To decorate the basket, I tied on a bow of holiday ribbon (I found a collection of ribbon at Goodwill a few weeks ago), and another ornament found at Goodwill.

I’ll never tell you I’m good at wrapping gifts or tying bows. It’s a skill I have sadly not mastered, but I did my best and I think it looks kinda cute!

Happy holidays!

Last week’s thrifted ‘fits round-up:

>> Last week’s thrift haul video on my instagram page <<

Lord & Taylor gingham dress from Goodwill West Palm Beach, layered with a non thrifted sweater.
Baby girl’s top from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Top and GAP jeans from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Linen top and pants from Goodwill West Palm Beach
GAP oversized button up and jeans from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Comfy coastal dress and MANGO tote from Goodwill West Palm Beach
Baby girl’s dress from Goodwill West Palm Beach
I forgot to do a proper outfit selfie, but the top I wore to brunch with Santa is from Goodwill West Palm Beach!